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wait what why ami feeling nostalgia of a memory i dont even have😭😭 (i think my senior yr of high school is hitting)

U HAVE SUCH A WAY WITH WORDS WTH

THANK YOU SO MUCH FOR THIS!!! I was afraid that I clicked on another video about the typical "self-love high standards cutting people off" stuff, but it wasn't. Honestly at one point I really got influenced by all this self-improvement stuff about cutting friends off that aren't "good enough" to fit your standards or aren't self-improving or fitting gour expectations that I lost all of my best friends and I'm so devastated about the way I acted, just treating them all like trash in a very narcissistic way while they did everything for me. I lost 4 of my best friends of 6 years, who were actually the realest friends who actually understood me and we connected so much with each othwr. But I listened to social media that told me my friends weren't good enough. So, now I listen to myself. And I've grown a lot since then, I feel like I've become a completely different person, learnt a lot of lessons, but I've also lost a lot. I don't think I can really ever get over it. So, don't make my mistake, people. Don't be idealistic. Be realistic. and yes, walk away if necessary, but that is not often the answer. Everything is circumstancial so take social media advice with a grain of salt; it's often misleading. But this video really is talking about the stuff that is not talked about on social media. Especially that point about needing better friendships, not better friends, and that you shouldn't believe that your friends are "not good enough" to your standards. Anyway. The lesson I learnt is: Don't be spoiled. Don't be idealistic in your standards, there's no such thing as a "perfect friend". Seek perfection and you will end up with nothing. Appreciate what you have and be content in the present moment rather than idealizing a perfect future. Value what you have. See the good in people rather than focusing on their "flaws". Accept yourself and people the way you/they are. Accept life the way it is and don't force it. PEOPLE ARE NOT DISPOSABLE. RESPECT people. Don't be self-centered or have main character syndrome and think you're somehow special or better than everybody else; the only reason you'd do that is if you're very insecure. Basically, don't be delusional and think with magical thinking, life doesn't work that way and I learnt it the hard way as a very spoiled child. Don't immediately give up on friendships because they don't match your standards; cutting people off is the LAST option!!!!!!!!!!!! You will always end up with nothing if you're searching for perfection and nothing is ever good enough for you. I hope that someone can save their friendships by taking in my message, because currently what's going on on social emdia is influencing people to believe that loneliness is a good thing. Self-love my ass, it's just self-isolation that has made me an anxious, lonely wreck. Anyways, sorry for this paragraph, good video <3

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What ever happened to going to the library , borrow a learning grammer book and learn, watch some youtube videos and get a conversation buddy and guess what- 2 years later one gets to a nice B2 level. Seems like my simple strategy is very effffective. No idea we need all different strategies and complicated scheduling, 10 different book, 100's of advice youtubers lecturing us. Keep it simple follow my lead and don't waste time with 90000 peoples complicated .....

Hey Victoria, this might be silly coming from a 17 y/o. I kinda had your video in watch in later for soo many months, i believe i had saved your video since the day you uploaded it. I was still lost in that time, but was too afarid to rediscover my self. Finally I had the courage to watch it, and it kinda gave me a direction. I kinda too want to film like you, i too want to go on a hike, i hope my family takes me to one this month as they have been talking. To be honest, your words gave me something that I am not the only one, not the only one lost. The society has madden us with the rat race, with fears that aren't even impactful. They impose their self made true sucess on us. But as you said, I need to keep moving, i need to flow with life, i can't stop a act like a rock in a flowing stream. I need to flow with life to enjoy it's beauty. Thanks, I kinda understood what i need to do right now to get myself together

I just found your video. I love it! Keep it up please!!

one hundred thanks for this VERY HELPFUL file!!!

I am learning Igbo language.

Aww man I needed this

¡Creo que has hecho un excelente trabajo! ¡Felicidades! Siento que solo necesitas seguir escuchando una variedad de audios y videos, formales e informales, de material auténtico para que las conjugaciones y preposiciones que acompañan a los verbos las aprendas de memoria. Como adultos que aprendemos una lengua extranjera queremos descubir cada regla, y el porqué de todo; sin embargo, a veces es mejor simplemente memorizar y dejarse llevar. En especial, las lenguas romances, como lo son el español o el francés; están llenas de excepciones. Por lo cual, pienso que simplemente, entre más escuches memorizaras las "collocations" que van con cada verbo y mejorarás. En ocasiones, solo necesitas saber la razón si lo vas a enseñar. Enfócate en el español de México porque en ocasiones el uso de preposiciones y verbos varia dependiendo del lugar. Por cierto, se puede decir tanto "la fiesta fue divertida" como "la fiesta estuvo divertida". Ambas son válidas.

he got flowers :")

I love your vlog! And I know what it's like to spend a lot of time on a screen, but something that helped me was paying more attention to what's happening in the world around me than on my cell phone. And it helped me a lot with concentration and it helped me read more books 🥰

WARNING - This is a great video with some amazing tips BUT even with all the tips in the world, nothing is going to negate our humanity. Humans are tribal people and we need each other. Introverts need less connection than extroverts but we all need some connection. Beginning in childhood, I’ve always done things alone because there was never anyone to do them with and I love that about myself AND because I grew up so independent, I didn’t know how to ask for help or invite people to do things with me. Sometimes being alone IS the same thing as loneliness when you aren’t meeting your connection quota, which is going to vary for each person. So while no one should depend on other people 24-7-365, it’s ok if you’re extroverted and like activities better when you do them with others, as long as you’re not negatively affecting you’re life waiting for others to join you.

This was a good watch. Constituency is so magical. BTW, your painting is beautiful. Good job Victoria.

hey, did you get a 40/42 in every term of ib?

Yes, making excuses for everything is the "best" way forward.

Amazing content & vlog

Imagine! Busting your hump in high school to get into the best college, and the instructors are jackasses, the cafeteria food sucks, housing is lackluster, the the student loan debt is crushing.

I liked it ! ♥️

me watching this: 🙂and also all the beautiful film spots in GUI?!

Your content brings a sense of peace in me. I relate with many of your thoughts and struggles eventhough our lives are very much different. For me, the biggest hurdle to improving my quality of life, is that I feel differently at different points of time. I feel that I face a certain problem today and think of a solution. But couple of days later I feel something else to be the problem and I abandon my efforts to overcome the previous one. My state of mind feels very transient and ever changing and that's why it's difficult to think of a way out. Keep sharing. Thank you.

Hey Victoria, always love the video updates. Wishing you continued peace and harmony in your life for the rest of 2024. I think it’s interesting how you mentioned that repeated ordinary actions can lead to extraordinary results. Recently I had a change in my life that’s resulted in me having some more free time, so I’ve put an emphasis on exercise, eating right, and taking my studies more seriously (2nd year college student). In the past, all of these habits were very daunting to me because it felt like if I tried to maintain them, it would end up not being enough. But I’m realizing that it only takes a little bit every day to be a better version of myself! Sorry for the long comment. Best wishes from Dallas, Texas.

Finally you upload a video 😊

Listen to Arashi for your Japanese playlist.

Out of all different college videos that ive seen, yours are just my favourite. Idek why but i just love your vibe

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What was the workbook you used to learn Spanish

Hi thank you for the video. I have been watching your videos for a long time. Everytime i feel not good enough, unmotivated and alone watching your videos gives me comfort. Thank you so much ❤

Loads of love from india sis thanku sm for your guidance 💖💖💐💐🇮🇳🇮🇳

Haha agreee with you on this, i do think apps can be fun though maybe the pressure of society weighs on others. Though I did enjoy meeting my current partner in person, it was slightly different experience to the apps!

NOT THE CLICHES...... i laughed out loud (in pain)

you are back i was actually waiting for you for months! always sharing informative facts thanks for real

This is precious

You're so amazing, man. Whenever I watch your videos I feel so calm and safe. You're so pure. I love your smile! I hope to see more of your videos💙

I'm finding this way later in the future (since this video was posted). Honestly. the frustration kicks in for sure. I'm learning two languages at a time too and I believe I have perfectionist tendencies as well. Watching this makes it feel a little less lonely as I study by myself. I'm at the stage where I feel frustrated not being able to find the words to express myself with my tutors but seeing that feeling frustrated is the norm for learning anything is truly making me observe and reflect.

I've been in a rut and needed this :)

Hi my sister, Iam a bangladeshi student with a avarage profile. And i have financial crisis also. So i need full ride scholarship. Is it possible to get?😭😭😭

actually 1 is the highest and 4 is the lowest so you were not average

Thank you so much it really helpful.......thanks a lot for sharing those essays 🫶🫶🫶

What language is she speaking?

jajajajajajajajaja i am from honduras

hello greeting from honduras

Thank you, Victoria - your gently offered, down-to-earth tips are both good medicine and well considered. Also, kudos for your video - great ambience, confident delivery, touching sincerity. Nice work.

which major did you apply as?

Partly inspired by this video, I did another one on how to set goals when you feel directionless and lost in life -- you can check it out here, and hope it helps :) ruclips.net/video/TBnvO7p5QiA/видео.html

I teared up watching this. Thank you… I really needed this❤

Nice!!! Thanks for sharing!!!

Yale is not a good school anymore. They inject political ideology into their students. They also commit horrific crimes against men. One man was wrongly accused of rape and won his case when prosecutors discovered Yale was destroying evidence that would prove his innocence. Research this.